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“Laura”
contacted Emerick some years later, asking if the researcher would
like to know how she was doing now as an adult. Emerick did, and
her findings were the basis for a follow-up study and for this
session.
In
the earlier study Emerick had learned that for “Laura” school
filled just part of her life, not the most significant part. The
same is true of work for her as an adult. At the age of 33
“Laura” works less than full time in her family’s business
so that she has room in her life for the things that matter most
to her, volunteer work, science, and music.
Her
parents question her life path. They feel she has not put her
gifts to full use. She, on the other hand, describes herself as
“satisfied” with her life. She feels that she’s
“emotionally involved in everything she does.” However, she
realizes that to other people, she appears to be an underachiever.
Emerick
explained that following up with “Laura” has had a major
impact on her views. It caused Emerick to totally rethink her
definition of
achievement.
Emerick found that “Laura” believes what she needs to do in
life is to honor her talents and help others. “Is she doing that
now?” asked Emerick. “Yes, she is. Maybe that’s what
achievement is.”
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